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Thursday
Dec222011

Nosy Bitches Non-Denominational Gift Giver

When I posted my Gift Giving Guide a week or so ago, I did it because I am involved in The First Twitter Friends Nosy Bitches Non-Denominational Gift Giver exchange. Here’s the inside joke:

There are many of us bloggers who also haunt Twitter. Now for those of you who don’t get Twitter, don’t use Twitter, don’t understand the need for Twitter – I get you. If I didn’t write a blog, it would be rather useless to me too. However, it’s a great way to market yourself if you’ve got a business or a product (I have both) and it keeps you in touch with other people in your same industry. And it’s fun.

For instance, yesterday Jenna Park of  Whimsy & Spice Brooklyn Confectioners (I mentioned her marshmallows in my Gift Guide and her blog is Sweet Fine Day) tweeted this golden nugget of love:

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Go ahead. I’ll wait.

TOTALLY FANTASTIC, RIGHT?

I immediately shared it on my personal Facebook page and apparently one of my old college friends was in dire need of an emergency Hall & Oats fix and didn’t even know it.

So now you see the incredible value of Twitter, right? It’s about as important as Facebook.1

So back to the Nosy Bitches. Inevitably, several NB’s will be in some back and forth tirade or conversation on Twitter. Someone else will jump on in the middle and will be all “WAIT! What’s going on?” and more often than not, politely interrupt and join the fun. Hence, Nosy Bitches.

Nosy Bitch Bunny from Bunnies ‘n Beagles collected all our info and set up a very easy exchange of names. I got my girl Kayce from Foodie Was Here (formerly a blogging bride at Shiny Pretty Bits) who was one of my very first sales from TruLu Couture! She’s got impeccable taste and I was SO worried about getting her something in the indicated price range that would fit her style.

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16K matte gold plated double hoop earrings with lovely yellow jade beads from Etsy Shop Luna Shine Shine.

I thought these were just lovely. The seller was a sweetie-pie too. Kayce got them and said she liked them, so hooray! I know I would wear them, so I hope she can too!

Now, I got two packages over the course of this last week that didn’t say who they were from! I thought one was from my Nosy Bitch, but after a few inquiries (via Twitter, natch), I found out they were NOT my Nosy Bitch gift and that it would be on it’s way….soon.

I got it yesterday. I was going to wait to open it on Christmas (I LOVE WAITING TO OPEN CHRISTMAS GIFTS!) but couldn’t stand it. I’m so glad I didn’t wait.

My Nosy Bitch, one Ms. KA of  The Discerning Dilettante, is one creative chick. First, she sent me a copy of the super-cool non-profit art magazine she works for ESOPUS. No advertising and totally cool shit inside. I’m taking it with me on holiday so other family members can have a look-see (Flo, you should TOTALLY subscribe to this magazine). She also sent me a gift from my own Gift Guide: a bottle of hooch. Awesome, right? Then, then the Nosy Bitch went all super-sleuth and checked out my Pinterest Boards, specifically my Ballet board.

Now I love ballet. I love it from afar, mostly. I was never the ballerina type. Always too tall, too awkward, not thin enough, not nearly enough grace…never enough of all the things one might need to be a ballerina. I took an adult ballet class back in Chicago. It was fun but confirmed the fact that I am both a giant and still missing the ballerina gene.  In college, as part of my Costume Construction Technology degree, I had to work back stage at the operas and ballets. I had to make a classical pancake tutu (SHOOT ME NOW). I had to do the costumes and stage hair and make-up for the ballerinas and had to hear oh my god I ate an entire cup of yogurt today on a regular basis. It was more than annoying.

Once I had them out of earshot, dressed and on stage, I’d park myself in a corner backstage and watch. They would twirl on their toes and leap through the air, muscles clenching and releasing, neck tendons standing out with the effort. Whether they were playing the part of the Sugar Plum Fairy or a member of the corps de ballet they all looked so beautiful and effortless, but I know differently. They’d come off stage, heaving for breath, sweating like pigs, bent over at the waist with hands on hips looking like I did when I finished my first marathon, sans tutu, of course. The dedication to the dance is one to be revered and respected.

Soooooo, when I opened my Nosy Bitch gift  card, Ill admit I got a little choked up. She wrote:

As a young dancer I covered my closet in ballet clippings (wasn’t allowed to damage the bedroom walls) and though it’s long overdue to be dismantled, I didn’t want to just throw it all away. So voila, Untitled Ballet Collage #1.

Framed ballet collage, hooch and Esopus.

I was so touched. The little framed collage is going up in my studio. For inspiration. How can one not be inspired from the closeted dance collage of a young woman?

So to the Discerning Dilettante? Thank you so much! I can’t think of a gift (from a stranger, at that) that hit all my soft spots (art, booze, more art) so succinctly! THANK YOU!

I just love Christmas, don’t you?

1If you don’t read sarcasm very well, it’s not all my fault. Tone, inflection and eye rolling  are difficult to convey via the typewritten word.

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Reader Comments (7)

Woohoo! You are so sweet! I went out on a bit of a ledge there, so I was relieved you liked the collage. Your story about being around dancers is hilarious, because in addition to being not-quite-good-enough, part of the reason I decided not to pursue dance professionally was due to realizing that it kinda matters to like who you'll be around all the time, and well, I just don't like hanging out with dancers! Gorgeous to watch, fulfilling to do, but what a craaazy lifestyle.

Happy happy holidays!

December 22, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterKA

Thanks for the magazine tip. I will give it to myself for Christmas.

Cool collage KA. I like that the content AND composition are so strong.

Yes, I love Christmas:)

December 22, 2011 | Unregistered Commenterflo

This is the true Christmas spirit (in a non-denominational way, of course.) What an amazingly thoughtful, inspiring gift. I'd put it up in my office too. Amazing.

And those earrings you got Kayce: divine. I am loving the NB gift exchange. It's everything I love about the internet and the holidays combined, without any of the #$^#$%&&! internet or holiday stuff.

December 22, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterBecca

Unfair. I'll come out and say it. I hate Christmas. I mean it's fun to watch kids open up presents, and I used to go hear my mother play Christmas Eve service at the Unitarian church. But the anticipation; the 45 min it took me to drive a mile the other day near the mall; the enforced jollity of it all; and the Christmas carols. Oh the Christmas carols. I try to burrow under a rock until January at the earliest.

But. But. This was a lovely post describing lovely interactions and connections and art and booze, all things I'm in favor of, and I want you to know it gave me a brief flicker of pleasantness toward the cursed holiday. OK, back to curling up in the corner of my office with the grinch. ;)

December 22, 2011 | Unregistered Commenterindependent clause

I love the gift exchange idea! The collage is great, tho I can't analyze it the way Flo can. And I feel soooo sorry for independent clause. As even the Grinch learned, Christmas isn't all about the presents and shopping, etc. It's and sharing the love with family and friends. So instead of curling up in a corner, try giving of yourself to someone else. It will definitely lift your spirits!
For the record, I am not very religious, and also find the carols annoying at times, but even the most devoted atheist cannot deny the beauty of Handel's Messiah.

December 23, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterMom

Don't feel sorry for me. I am somewhat less grinchy in real life and I love Handel's Messiah. I feel about classical music the way a half-lapsed religious person might feel about God: guilty and yet full of love.

December 25, 2011 | Unregistered Commenterindependent clause

Christmas is my favorite time of the year. Great that we celebrate this most important part of the year.

January 2, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterAnon

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